The Truth Hurts.. Some People.

I'm quite pissed off at the moment.

A friend recently posted a photo on a website and asked people if they liked her outfit.

To be honest, I found it unflattering. She has been on a diet recently and is starting to look really good but the outfit did nothing for her. In fact it made her arms look really big, her boobs look non existent and her body look like she had no shape. Plus it dragged on the ground.

It was a nice colour, nice design, completely overpriced and is something I would wear if I was in my late 30's. No scratch that, I would wear it in my 50's to look polished and glamorous.

The reason it's such a big deal to me is that she is barely in her early 20's. Yeah, she can afford it but just because you can afford something doesn't mean that you shouldn't go for something less expensive that looks ten times better on you. Or even just as expensive that looks ten times better on you.

I told her I thought it was nice but that I thought she could find something with more of a jaw dropping and stunning factor. I wasn't about to tell her what I just told you because that would be rude and uncalled for, but now I'm over it and I'm telling it how it is.

She responded with the fact that the event she was going to was just a party with a formal dress code so it was no big deal and she had already bought the dress.

I didn't bother replying. If she liked it and it was what she chose, then good for her. I hope it makes her feel beautiful, sexy and every other positive and confident emotion out there. Then another one of her friends said it looked more appropriate for a wedding and that she should have chosen something else.

That really got her back up about it and she had a bit of a bitchy reply and then it started.. Her family started leaving comments about how "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all." "Her family will be at this party judging the dress and we think it's beautiful." and then her fake ass friend started having her two cents, which turned more into a bank-full of cents because she went right off the planet doing the whole "She can afford it, you should be happy and not trying to put her down."

So what was a friend innocently telling another friend their honest and CENSORED opinion, turned into a "You're not a real friend." "If she wanted your opinion she would have invited you to go shopping but she didn't so keep your opinion to yourself."

All of those comments coming from a girl who is the fakest person I've met in my life. And while I'm aware that the word "fakest" doesn't exist, there is not other word I want to use because my grandparents read this blog. Haha.

This girl would crawl so far up your ass that you wouldn't need to watch what you eat because it would be going into your mouth but down her throat and into her stomach. Ya dig?

This is a girl who asks you to order her a meal at Nandos and then walks away to "send a text message" so that you're stuck with the bill. Or asks if you want to tag along while she goes shopping and then wants you to put petrol in her car. Or she asks if you want to go shopping, drives to your house then expects you to drive from there.

These are just some of the things my friend has told me about this girl. It makes me want to punch her in the head and now this USER and tightass is telling me that I'm a bad friend? Mate..

I really hate certain parts of the internet.

From now on I'm going to keep my opinion to myself. I really cant be bothered with the argument.. But then again, if you don't want my opinion - DON'T ASK FOR IT. And if my opinion isn't something you want to hear, at least appreciate my honesty and don't let your guard dog try and bite my head off.

Did I mention that the chick having a go at me helped my friend choose the dress I hated? No wonder she was so angry that I didn't like it ;)

FOUND: My Strength.

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Chips, Fruit and A Hot Tub Time Machine.

Well, you must have noticed by now that I have been slacking off in the last few days. It feels like a month since I have written something so this will probably be a really long one.

I have been feeling really sick for almost a week now. Most of my time has been spent on the couch in and out of a groggy sleep with a never ending headache and a tapping in my head. Yesterday I wanted to ask my mum to look in my ears in case some spider eggs were laid and hatched without me realizing it. Would have explained a lot, but there is no spiders, just my brain. It gets my thinking 'Oh no, what if I have brain swelling or a tumor..' I'm going to 'scan my cat' on Tuesday (aka getting a cat scan lol). I'm sure there is nothing really wrong with me, I just feel like ten tonnes of donkeys ass and cant seem to shake it off.

I had a shower this morning and semi straightened my hair, which sort of made me feel a bit better. Walking up to the shops to buy some mandarins and chocolate was good for me. The fresh air, no matter how chilly it is, always does me some good. The guy at my local fruit&vegie store made me smile as always. He is a really nice man, not sure what nationality he is but he's from the Middle East without a doubt. He always asks my mum what nationality she is because of her blonde hair and green eyes. Each time we go in there he has a different nationality that he thinks she is. First it was Swedish, then Russian and then German.. It took him a good 7 times before she put him out of his misery and told him she was Italian. He said that explained my dark features and she told him I had the Turkish in me to thank for that. So now every time I go into the fruit shop it's 'Ahhh, Nasilsin?' which means how are you. I must have told him 20 times that I don't speak fluent Turkish but he will still speak three really fast sentences in Turkish and then speak to me in English. I understand the basics but SLOWWWWWWWW DOWWWNNNNNNN with the rest of it. It's like he is the voice over for a horse race. I admire how he knows at least 4 languages.. I just wish he would choose one that he speaks to me and stick to it haha.

I gotta get a photo of him. He is a classic. Not tall (a polite way of saying he is short), short tight ringlet/afro hair in black with some grey running through, very tanned and in shape, a very nice smile and always gives me a ridiculous discount. I never end up spending more than $3 despite the fact that the bananas I take up there would be $2.50 alone.. Never mind the apples, beans, mandarins and lemons I get with them. It's $3 and a free pack of Arabic chewing gum no matter what.

On the walk home I stopped and got some hot chips with 3 battered savs and 3 fried dim sims for my family and I. We have all been eating like once a day because were all sick in one way or another so it was a nice treat to eat something other than a toasted sandwich or chicken noodle soup.

Last night after torturing myself and listing another 50 items on the site, I watched Hot Tub Time Machine. It was funnier than I expected. It was different than I thought it would be but I enjoyed it none the less. Today I watched Wolfman with Benicio Del Toro. It was the most gory werewolf/lycan movie I've seen so far. It wasn't scary but you actually see peoples guts flying here there and everywhere, their bloody stumps, fingerless hands and torn up rib-cages.

The movie wasn't bad, but wasn't fantastic. It was hard to stop myself almost breaking into laughter throughout the whole movie because all I could think of was the voice that Benicio Del Toro had in the movie The Usual Suspects. It was strange hearing him speak with a no 'accent'. Anthony Hopkins was loony as always and Emily Blunt is quite lovely, perhaps even beautiful in one way or another.

Mum is really sick with the flu but at the moment she is ignoring that so she can take measurements and weights of all the items we have to list tomorrow so she wants me to put on a movie to break up the monotony. I might get some rest because I have to take 150 photos of the items we listed over the weekend so we can complete the listing and I can finally do my big unveiling of the site. We are almost at 2000 items and have 10 times that amount sitting here waiting to be listed. Just don't want to give you guys the website info when it looks so empty.

Must go, am getting dizzy. Will be sure to put an awesome fashion and makeup post tomorrow, maybe even late tonight if I cant sleep.

Peace.